Everything I Learned About Working With Kids, I Learned from Julie Andrews PT 3

So, in parts 1 & 2, we learned that you need to have high expectations of kids and have confidence in yourself. So, what’s #8?

Magic is important. What? You mean Harry Potter and stuff? Well, sort of. It’s important for kids to have a little hope in their lives. All the practicality in the world can’t make up for a little bit of that elusive sparkle.

Mary Poppins is the most obvious example in this situation since she had literal magic to work with. She takes the children on adventures through chalk drawings and has tea on the ceiling because of the power of laughter. However, sometimes Mary Poppins’s magic is in the joy she brings into the kids’ lives. “A Spoon Full of Sugar” doesn’t just help the medicine go down, it makes everyday tasks a joy by bringing in fun and wonder. One of my favorite moments from the entire movie is when she acts all prim and proper and then proceeds to powder her nose with soot. It’s just funny, and no one knows what she’s going to do next. It’s all very exciting.

However, magic stands in for hope, creativity, wonder, and humor. As Maria, Julie Andrews is not at all magical, yet she brings light into those children’s lives in an entirely magical way. Again, she is not predictable except that she will care and have a brilliant, fun idea to work with.

There is also a kind of magic specifically for the viewers in the form of hope. The country is invaded by Nazis, and all seems entirely lost. However, by persevering their integrity and standing up for what they believe in, the family escapes Nazi control. There is a sense that even with evil all around, there are still good people who will help them and people who will not fight for the Nazis.

Coincidentally (or not), this brings us to another Developmental Asset from the Search Institute. One of the 40 assets that improve teens chances of growing up to be a happy, healthy, productive adult is having a positive view of their personal future- hope.

Now, how can we help inspire that view of their personal future? Well, I certainly cannot pull anyone up a chimney. However, by giving kids positive environments, believing in them, and giving them a sense of magic, I think that libraries are well positioned to make that positive belief in self come true. The magic comes from humor, programs, great books, and caring adults who are trying hard to create a world of a hope. You don’t need to convince every kid that Harry Potter is their only way to a positive future, but you do need to find what inspires them and encourage that. That way, they grow up knowing that there is an adult that believes in them and wants them to succeed. Magical, isn’t it?

Share

The WSJ Debacle or How to Love YA

So, if you are an avid twitter user and follow the fabulous YA lit community, you have probably already heard of the Wall Street Journal’s recent article bemoaning the depravity of current young adult literature. The Hunger Games must be a sick joke! Talking about rape is only OK if people get out of it right before it happens! There are no happy YA books anymore! Etc. Etc. Etc.

Some of those thought may be taken from the comments (which seem filled with failed YA writers saying that it’s totally their great morals keeping them from getting published to which I add- there are TONS of books for YA out there that don’t fit the article’s description. It’s not how much you swear, it’s whether or not your writing speaks to the young adult experience). All in all, the article and discussion surrounding it got me all fired up to tear off a soap-boxy stand where I deplore the morals of the YA haters and their inability to let children grow and learn as people. I would use wit and sarcasm to ask if they would be so caught up in their own idyllic fantasies of youth if someone had let them read books to make them think in their adolescence.

Then, I read Steph So Reads blog post about the whole thing. She talks about how a lot of debates today are people shouting at each other (I’m paraphrasing) where no one is changing anyone else’s mind. Everyone is just taking their stand and loudly proclaiming why they, and only they, are right. Then I felt a little bit embarrassed about my own stand.

I still believe that the writer of the post is fundamentally wrong on a number of issues, including the fact that these books are not written for her or the angry commenters but for young adults, but I do wish that we could start a discourse about why each side feels so strongly. I don’t know that it would change anything, but I think that if people could discuss these things civilly, it might lead to less book banning. (OK. I also had a problem with her very fiesty support of book banning as a form of parental judgement. PLEASE take an interest in what your child reads (though this kind of attitude will probably cause them to find other places to read the things they want or perhaps grow up with a complex about those issues (TRUE STORY)), but do not take the right for anyone else to read those things away.)

All right. So, I haven’t exactly embraced the philosophy of discourse instead of debate, but I acknowledged it. That’s got to be a step in the right direction. Now I would like to end with beautiful twitter quotes from AWESOME YA lovers and authors. Many of which were retweeted or discussed by Maureen Johnson (@maureenjohnson), Neil Gaiman (@neilhimself), and Libba Bray (@libbbray) and you know I love them! If you’re reading this close to the publishing date, just search twitter for #YAsaves for the MANY rebuttals to the WSJ’s post.

@elockhart said, “I have a responsibility to my readers to tell the truth. I’m writing for your kids, not for you.”

@OfficiallyAlly says, “Who wants to bet the @WSJ would call any non-dark YA book “fluff” and write it off as non-literature anyway?”

@JosinMcQuein said, “Because sometimes pretending everything is fine will kill you faster than suicide”

@brickpants said, “YA taught me to accept people; broken, beaten, angry, shy, gay, straight, happy, depressed. And it taught me to accept /myself/. ”

@Bulletwisdom says, “YA gives my daughter and I something intelligent issues to argue about over the dinner table.”

@meanjoanna said, “YA gave me a place to go when i didn’t have a home.”

@sickcuriousity said, “YA helped me stay alive when an abusive home and being gay made me not want to be anymore.”

@KatherynnnAlice said, “YA taught me first the scope and breadth of human emotion, and that every feeling is universal.”

@jlewenda said, “Books helped me realise that it wasn’t my fault for being raped.”

@rightingteacher said, “YA showed me worlds I had no access to as a rural poor kid in an insular, conservative area, and opened my mind and heart. ”

@scott_tracey said, “YA books can be a voice in the dark, when you think no one else will ever understand you.”

Share

YA in 2011

There have been a lot of awesome things that have already made a splash in 2011, like Ship Breaker winning the Michael Printz award and a lot of YA book bloggers making and committing to challenges.  I would love to make a challenge for myself to read so many YA books.  The problem is that to actually challenge myself, I would need to make that number ridiculously high.  I’m getting my MLIS in YA library science.  I’m already reading through the YALSA lists like crazy on top of my personal YA reading.  I would have to pledge to read 100+ books to honestly challenge myself, and I just can’t do that while I’m in school.  However, I admire people that are challenging themselves like Wicked Awesome Books or For the Love of YA.

However, beyond self-challenges, there are some challenges for YA authors out there.  My personal favorite is Likely Stories’ post called “My 2011 YA Wishlist.”  The first one- the universes made up entirely of teens- didn’t bother me so much this year.  The second one- first person, present tense- does bother me when it’s done poorly but no big deal.  But, points 3, 4, and 6 totally hit home for me.  I’m over a lot of the supernatural stuff.  There have been too many of these stories and WAAAAY too many of these are crappy.

Anyway, enjoy all of the great YA reads in 2011.  I’m psyched about Maureen Johnson’s Last Little Blue Envelope coming out in April.  Almost Perfect, Stonewall Children’s and Young Adult Literature Award winner is supposed to be a good read.  In the next three years, there are some fantastic YA books being made into movies (and some less fantastic ones).  So, there are a lot of great things to look forward to.  Enjoy!!

Share

For Sale: Cringe-worthy Awkward Memories

One of the YA book blogs I follow is the Hiding Spot, and the blog often has reviews, author guest posts, and things like that.  Well, the Hiding Spot recently hosted author Sarah Ockler’s guest post which gave a quick summary of her new book and then hosted a “garage sale” of Ockler’s teen important items and the memories associated with them.  I thought this was brilliant.  Who wouldn’t want to make a little cash on those memories from our awkward years that still make us cringe or the ones that just don’t seem so important anymore?  I am thinking less object specific, but the actual memories themselves- Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind style.

I’m not talking about those memories of late nights pigging out with friends but the ones of not being able to breathe when you wait to see if the cute guy from your English class was actually waving at your or at his best friend who magically appears behind you.  (Anyone who doesn’t have a memory like that one is lying.)  Maybe some visual cues will wake those memories up.  I’m talking about the Anthony Michael Hall waving Molly Ringwald’s panties in the bathroom kind of memories (I know I’m too young for Sixteen Candles, but I can appreciate a classic.)

Oooh, or Ben Stiller in the opening to There’s Something About Mary….. yikes!

If 80′s and 90′s movies don’t give you a thrill, perhaps this Harry Potter compilation can remind you of those moments that still make your face red many years later:

Of course, you do have to think about who would buy your awkward moments.  It seems like these film makers and authors use them quite a bit when describing their teen years, so you could always try to sell to them- or work on your own project!

However, I guess when it comes down to it, I want to keep my awkward teen memories, if only because they helped shape who I am today, even the awful hair (pre-teen) and when I thought wearing a dog bandana everywhere was the height of cool.  Though I have no idea why the blush worthy faux pas are still crystal clear while many pleasant ones have blurred together.

Anyway, check out The Hiding Spot for Ockler’s original post and memories for sale, as well as YA reviews and author posts. (This is a fully voluntary, unasked-for promotion.  I don’t actually know Sara, The Hiding Spot’s blogger, but I like what she posts.)

Share

Book Talks

I’ve been debating for a while doing reviews of YA books on this site.  I don’t want my site to become another book blog.  (Don’t get me wrong, I love book blogs and read MANY regularly.)  However, I don’t respect the blogs that always give great reviews, but I am the person who fills in “Neither agree of disagree” as my major negative complaint on surveys.  I would never be able to review things I didn’t like.  However, I am taking a YA library class, and one of our assignments was book talks.  I like this plan of only recommending books that I really liked.  So, I made a video featuring three great books that I want to recommend to the world!

Enjoy!

Share